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Better Arguments at W&M
Engaging Across Differences
At William & Mary, we recognize that the future of democracy depends on active citizens who can engage effectively across difference. Better Arguments at William & Mary is a university-wide initiative based on the Aspen Institute's national civic framework. The principles of a Better Argument provide our community with a common language and shared norms for navigating conflict and disagreement.
The Five Principles
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Take Winning off the Table
Lead with a desire to understand and learn, rather than to win. In most debates, participants battle it out with the goal of winning or defeating the other side. A Better Argument, however, is about the robust exchange of ideas.
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Prioritize Relationships & Listen Passionately
Focus on building honest connections. Arguments are improved when we listen, not just advance our own points of view. Seek to learn more about a person beyond their opinion on the topic. Make a point to share more about yourself than just your own opinion.
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Pay Attention to Context
Acknowledge the many factors that may influence beliefs. Civic debates don’t take place in a vacuum. Rather, they take place in the context of lived experiences, access to information, culture, and more. Make room for these influences by trying to understand why a person holds their belief, rather than merely reacting.
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Embrace Vulnerability
Consider the benefits of opening up in an argument. Vulnerability is necessary to enter any kind of conversation that is not simply confirming your own worldview. When we are vulnerable, we can open new avenues for human connection.
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Make Room to Transform
Be open to new and varied perspectives. Without a goal of winning, the experience of a Better Argument can instead change how we engage with a difficult issue and with one another in daily interactions. By making room to transform, we often walk away with more nuance, fewer assumptions, and better solutions.
Better Arguments Week
Join us for Better Arguments Week, a series of events designed to help you put the principles of Better Arguments into practice. Connect with campus partners, explore real-world applications and build the skills to engage across difference.
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Student Engagement
Students are invited to engage across difference through peer-led conversations and storytelling.
Resources
Explore the principles and materials that help guide Better Arguments at William & Mary.
Support Civic Engagement
The Democracy Strategic Initiative Fund supports programs and initiatives that bring William & Mary’s commitment to practicing and promoting democratic ideals to life. Gifts support dialogue across difference, student engagement, public conversations, and partnerships with organizations such as the Aspen Institute and the Harwood Institute, helping William & Mary foster informed engagement and shared responsibility for the common good.
Contact Information
Have questions or want to get involved? Use the email address below to contact our team and learn more about Better Arguments at William & Mary.